Should I Go to the Darkside For My Lighting Designer?
I met Vlad in college. He was the lighting designer for my dance performances. I had a crush on him since the first day I saw him, but I knew he had a serious girlfriend. I thought of him as off limits until he began texting me things like "I want to pull your hair and hear you orgasm." I knew it was wrong but I thought it was really sexy.
These texts continued for over six months and then I heard he broke up with his girlfriend. That day he texted me and said "let's hang out and see if we will really like each other." Well, we quickly realized that we did and we began hanging out more and more. It was passionate, intellectual, artistic, and.. hot! Even when I left the country for a couple of months, he emailed me constantly.
Then, all of the sudden it stopped. No warning! Vlad just disappeared. Then a few months later, I ran into him. I learned that he had a new girlfriend. However, he began sending me messages again and the next time I saw him we had a steamy make-out session.
When I asked him whether he felt badly, he said "no, my girlfriend wouldn't care." Again, I knew it was wrong, but it felt so good. What should I do? Should I keep seeing him or not?