Is He Just Using Me?? Please Help!

by Tori
(Denver, CO)

We met at work, got my number and like a week later I got a text from him. he was so shy but after a couple texts got to the point and asked me out to the movies. for days before the date we just talked and talked. He seemed really interested in me. what i liked, my family, etc. He would say goodnight and good morning. Then we went on the date he held my hand the whole time and was kissing me.

The next day he was calling me baby. a week later I had sex with him, I was a virgin. He's more experienced then me so I do have to admit it was a great first time. But I hope it wasn't with the wrong person. So anyway he was still texting me, and the next day we went to the mall, he held my hand the WHOLE time, and we kissed goodbye.

The next day I had to ask him, did he want this to become a relationship or just one thing? His exact answer was "i have to be honest. if you want to be friends that's fine. If you want to see if we can work out then that's fine to." My sister said that means he wants to be friends with benefits. So I asked him if he'd be fine if I went out with other people then, and he instantly texts back "like who?"

HELP is he using me?
sorry i made this so long to read.