From bf to roomate? :/

by Nikki L
(KY)

I have been seeing this guy for approx. 7 months, things have been great. Recently we decided we wanted to live together. Well we're on our second week, and the first week was AMAZING but, for the past 5 days we seem to be drifting apart. I don't know if its stress, or just becoming comfortable with each other or what. But, he recently got laid off from his job and he stays really quiet, and distant. We don't really communicate that much, there is slim to none affection and he hasn't even slept in the bed with me for almost a week.. I've asked a couple times if everything is alright he insists that it is, but I don't know. I don't want to seem like a worry-wart so I've been trying to stay calm, but this is really aggravating me. I don't understand what it seems as if he's pushing me away?

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Oct 01, 2014
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Give It Time
by: The Love Mistress

Hi Nikki!

Let me ask you this question...have you ever lost a job before? If you have...you understand that it can be a little stressful and he may be quiet because he is thinking of his next move. Do not take offense to his distance. Losing a job can be hard on folks especially if the bills do not stop coming in.

How about you make suggestions to help him. For starters he should at least file for unemployment until he can find a new gig. Trust me, I've been there and the last thing you want to do is keep nagging him about his feelings. If you love him, have a conversation with him and let him know that you are here for him and will help him in any way possible. Right now...and more than anything...he needs your support.

Good luck hun and tell him to keep his head up!

Hugs and Kisses :-)

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