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The Love Lounge Express: Create A Date; Issue #006
October 16, 2013
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Below, you will find exciting tips, ideas and information on how to make dating, relationships, and marriages exciting and different, how to please your man/woman in the bedroom, and ideas for creative dates and such.
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A Message from the Editor:
Guys this message is for YOU!
If you find yourself not getting dates with the girls
you ask out, it might have NOTHING to do with
you and EVERYTHING to do with what you are
It is pretty easy for a girl to turn down "want to
catch a movie and dinner with me this weekend"
while one of the following might be a lot or enticing
* I was thinking of making some homemade ice cream
on Saturday at my place. What are your favorite
flavors? What mix-ins do you like?
* Looks like it we will have great weather this weekend. I
was thinking of going canoeing at the lake and having a
picnic on the island. What sort of picnic foods do you like?
These are just 2 of the hundreds of creative date ideas
you can use to get a "YES" to your next invitation.
If you ask a girl out for dinner/movie you will approach her
like 99% of the guys out there. Think about it and read below for more helpful tips on how not to screw up your first date!
Hugs & Kisses,
LADY LOVE ;-)
5 First Date Mistakes Men Make That End In Heartbreak and How To Avoid Them
Let's face ityou never get a second chance to make a first impression!
That's why, if you want to take things further with a woman, you need to show her your best on the very first date. And in actual fact, there are 5 things that men consistently do on first dates that totally destroy their chances of seeing the woman again, and the worst part is they think they're doing it right!
Avoid the following 5 mistakes to increase your chances of success on your first date:
Mistake #1: Buying gifts - Bringing chocolate or flowers on a first date isn't the best idea - especially if you've just met the woman! She's there to get to know YOU. Women are always asking themselves "what does THAT mean?" And in this case it's, "He bought me flowers because he likes me, but he doesn't even know anything about me yet! A little suspicious.
Mistake #2: Being Mr. Serious - When in the presence of a potential date, men often become boring, instead of keeping up the friendly vibe they have with their friends. They won’t make jokes or laugh with the woman, they won’t play around like they do with their friends and they generally take things a little too seriously. Why do men change their behavior around women, often without even realizing they’re doing it? Because they fear losing their only chance with the girl of their dreams, they try and play the safe side, which results in a “Mr. Serious.”
Mistake #3: Conducting an Interview - When men become "Mr. Serious" they often fall into "job interview conversation mode." Make sure you reserve questions like, "So where do you work?" or "How many brothers and sisters do you have?" for the future, after you've already had a lot of fun and made the sparks fly. Instead, talk about your hobbies, interesting stories and fun stuff. Avoid anything too deep for a long period of time. On a first date, it can make things a little depressing. Talk like you've known each other for years (as if you don’t need to do the awkward 20-questions quiz.) Of course you can ask basic questions, but never make it the main focus of your date. Focus on fun.
Mistake #4: Being too needy and direct - Without realizing it, many guys turn their dates off by trying a little too hard. For example: Men will lean into a woman’s personal space, and ask, "so do you like me?" or constantly change his opinion to seek her approval and make her like him. Big mistake. Ironically, it's leaning back, staying cool and calm, being a little cheeky, interesting, mysterious and comfortable with yourself that actually gets a woman's attention and keeps her interested.
Mistake #5: Going to boring places - If your date finds the night boring, you're finished. When it comes to having fun on first dates, nothing is more important than what you do. And while dinners and movies are nice, it's really hard to leave a great impression in these settings. Why? Because they set a very "proper tone" that's hard to turn into fun and playful. And unless you're a super funny, intelligent and interesting guy, dinner and movie dates just aren't the best place to take your date. Instead, go to fun places like mini-golf parks, carnivals, parks, or even better, come up with your own unique and fun ideas.
So in essence, while there are many factors to having a successful date, a great date idea really helps you do many of them naturally! Remember, where you take a woman on a first date can be the difference between a great night and a dating disaster! Choose wisely!
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