My ex took me to lunch and paid and then came to my house to help me with something. I decided to straight up ask him if he ever thought about us getting back together and he said he never thought about it. He said he doesn't want to date right now but doesn't mind hanging out sometimes.
He also said he isn't ready. I said I understand he isn't ready and will leave him alone because I want more. He didn't respond back. But he has been flirting and then wanted to come over and even took me out and paid. What is this about? Is he interested but scared of commitment? Will he come around or should I move on? I decided to just stop texting him and that was 2 days ago...today I get a text from him about something general. Why?
Now he is acting like he doesn't care. Talking to him was like pulling teeth yesterday. What is going on?